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Slow Down, You're Movin' Too Fast· · ·

What is the most important change I need to make, as I talk with my prospects on the phone instead of face-to-face?

Slow you speaking speed.

Salespeople say they do not like the phone because they cannot read the prospect's body language. The lack of visual cues leaves them feeling blinded and wondering what to say next.

These comments are well founded. Why? "Fifty-five percent of an interpretation of face-to-face conversation is determined by nonverbal cues, 38 percent by our voice and 7 percent by the words themselves." Roger Ailes documents the research for these statistics in his book You Are the Message.

Adapt to the Loss of Visual Cues

More than half of face-to-face conversation is communicated through the eyes at the speed of light so that you "hear" your prospects with your eyes and ears. When talking on the phone, you lose the visual cues you are so used to and therefore communicate with less information than you are used to relying on. You "hear" only with your ears at a far slower speed, the speed of sound.

Beware of Too Many or Too Few Words

In a desire to make the most of their ninety seconds of phone time with the prospect, sales pros freeze or quickly spew out words in hopes of dazzling the executive so that he or she will want to schedule an appointment. The impression that is unintentionally made is similar to the irritation and frustration you feel when someone rapidly fires his name and number onto your voice mail especially annoying when he does not enunciate. It could be Ed McMahon leaving a voice mail saying you have won $50 million and to call him at (800). . .1414. All you can scribble down is Ed Mc. . .won $50 mil. . .frustrated and irritated--not the unforgettable impression a sales professional intends to make.

Engage in Focused Conversation

Look at your phone calls from your prospect's point of view. You, the caller, speak as though the prospect is looking at you. In reality, the prospect is listening to you and processing your words much slower than face-to-face communication. As a result, you unintentionally build in resistance before the prospect even knows what you are calling about. You forfeit all control of the conversation by telling all you know without asking questions of the person on the other end of the line. The prospect is being talked at instead of engaged in focused conversation with a clear purpose.

Adapting our communication style to the telephone requires a heavier reliance on the quality, tone, pitch, variation, pace of our voice. . .and the need to slow down. Slow down enough to breathe and listen to your prospect. Slow down so your prospect can process the words you are speaking.

Paul Simon, musician, songwriter and vocalist, sang a song n the 60's that started out with the words, "Slow down you're movin' too fast, you've got to make the morning last. . ." This is a great tune to remember when making phone calls to keep your voice at a nice, s-l-o-w pace. 

An inexpensive way to check the pace of your voice on a phone call is to call your own voice mail. Leave your name, phone number and the purpose of your call. Then, listen to your voice mail message and honestly ask yourself, "Based on the message you just left, would you do business with you?"

SOURCE: Secrets To Scheduling The Executive-Level Sales Call: how to win over the million-dollar decision-makers

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